I bet we get in the newsletter eventually in at least one specific way, which is how to interpret the 20% of men get 80% of attention on dating sites line that a lot of male masculinity influencers use. I think the way they say it gives off a hopelessness for any man who isn't 80th percentile good looking and wealthy. But I'm dying to hear from women (for this hetero dynamic) about how low the bar actually is to get into the to 20th percentile, i.e. don't have a profile that is visibly threatening violence, etc. Does that sound related to the low tolerance for toxic masculinity? The new bar is probably extremely achievable.