It certainly helps in all states of your training to have somebody to persuade and support you, but in the end you will train and [perform] successfully because you want to, not because somebody else wants you to. ~Joe Vigil

I swapped the word perform for the word race in the above quote. Vigil is a running coach. But I think the sentiment holds for a lot of things.

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